WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?

I was fond of hunting and Grandma knew it.  After daily farm activities, I would join a friend, Tayo, and we would get into the business. Grandma would warn me, “Babayemi, do not insert your hand into holes because of ...

If I’m not blessed in… ?

Q: What if I’m not being blessed in my local church? Your spiritual growth is very important and it shouldn’t be toyed with. Forget sentiments and look for a church where you’ll be thoroughly equipped and edified, one that will spur ...

Dear 90’s Baby #11

Dear 90’s Baby, Thank you. Between the last time I wrote to you and now, a lot has happened. I have hosted 2 hangouts, made a career transition, gotten married, and moved to a new city. So, there is a lot of ...

When I don’t feel Saved

Q: What about times when I don’t feel saved? Feelings come and go. Feelings may be inconsistent and feelings don’t last. Some days you feel like being indoors, some days, the thought of it annoys you. When you acknowledge the ...

HASHTAG ‘GOALS’

Obviously this is not a new topic and you’ve probably read or heard of this goal setting thing more times than you’ve actually put to practice. So let me not bore you with long gist. For me, 2017 was my ...

FACING THE FACTS

Optimism does not mean an outright denial of facts- but recognizing and being strengthened by them. You may be making a great mistake by assuming that your problems are not there (as a way of numbing your fear or activating ...

MY 9-5 JOB (Pt. 2)

Just as we discussed in our last episode on how important it is to have the right attitude towards your job, there is another factor you should put into consideration while at your job. I’m sure you can’t wait to ...

In Search of Rebecca # 2

  “Oh my God! It’s 6:43am and I haven’t woken Rebecca up” Aunt Zipporah jumps out of bed and dashes down to Rebecca’s room… While on her way she tries to figure out how she’ll have to persuade Rebecca to forgive her ...

Nurture Your Inner-man

I am sure you remember how you felt when you gave birth to that baby- after waiting for several years? How you sacrificed for that child, how you were present to respond to every cry, how you protected the child ...

In Search of Rebecca #1

Growing up as a young boy, I had always fantasized at how beautiful my wife would look. Many of those times, I had to be reminded in the midst of such mind travels:” “boy you still have at least a ...

The Quest for Meaning

  “I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry, and he who believes in me will never be thirsty.” John 6:35 Some frustrated individuals have argued that life does not necessarily have to be coherent. ...