5 Things I learnt from NFS

  It had been six long months of research, reading and writing academic papers. I just needed a break, I kind of wanted something less tasking and would sort of give me some relief. I didn’t find movies on my PC, I ...

Dear 90’s Baby #13

Dear 90s Baby, Things won’t get easier, but you can get tougher; things won’t get simpler, but you can get more equipped; your needs won’t all disappear, but you can become content; world problems won’t reduce, but you can get happier. ...

How to deal with worry

It’s easy to give someone reasons they shouldn’t worry especially when we aren’t the ones in the situations. ‘Don’t worry, everything will be fine’, we say. ‘Is that all that’s getting you worried? We ask. But just as soon as ...

Add value on your job

Have you ever been in a situation where you knew you could do something to make things better? But you said to yourself, ‘well it’s not my job, it’s not my duty, neither is it my business?’ Some of us are ...

Dear 90’s Baby #12

Dear 90’s Baby, Are you happy? In the past few months, suicide cases in my country went up. Some people who looked perfectly normal and comfortable on the outside just decided to end their lives. We heard cases of people jumping into ...

You made poor decisions because…

The demands of an average day have the possibilities of heaping so much pressure on us and eventually, force us into worry. When we come under such pressures, we often are at risk of making very poor decisions. Mind you, ...

WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?

I was fond of hunting and Grandma knew it.  After daily farm activities, I would join a friend, Tayo, and we would get into the business. Grandma would warn me, “Babayemi, do not insert your hand into holes because of ...

If I’m not blessed in… ?

Q: What if I’m not being blessed in my local church? Your spiritual growth is very important and it shouldn’t be toyed with. Forget sentiments and look for a church where you’ll be thoroughly equipped and edified, one that will spur ...

Dear 90’s Baby #11

Dear 90’s Baby, Thank you. Between the last time I wrote to you and now, a lot has happened. I have hosted 2 hangouts, made a career transition, gotten married, and moved to a new city. So, there is a lot of ...

When I don’t feel Saved

Q: What about times when I don’t feel saved? Feelings come and go. Feelings may be inconsistent and feelings don’t last. Some days you feel like being indoors, some days, the thought of it annoys you. When you acknowledge the ...

HASHTAG ‘GOALS’

Obviously this is not a new topic and you’ve probably read or heard of this goal setting thing more times than you’ve actually put to practice. So let me not bore you with long gist. For me, 2017 was my ...

FACING THE FACTS

Optimism does not mean an outright denial of facts- but recognizing and being strengthened by them. You may be making a great mistake by assuming that your problems are not there (as a way of numbing your fear or activating ...

MY 9-5 JOB (Pt. 2)

Just as we discussed in our last episode on how important it is to have the right attitude towards your job, there is another factor you should put into consideration while at your job. I’m sure you can’t wait to ...